Deepest condolences
uxoof: ris
AHK:?
uxoof: anaknya TJ meninggal
AHK:innalillahi
AHK:tau darimana suf?
uxoof: mo takziyah gak?
uxoof: chat room
AHK:kapan?
uxoof: sore ini
uxoof: ke RS Harkit
AHK:yuk
AHK:bareng aja
*the third line of the conversation membuat saya shock
yesterday a friend of mine baru saja terkena musibah, actually two...
it's T&T... they lost their baby
her name was Tatyana Jannati , such a beautiful name
she died when she was born
apparently they knew that there was something wrong with her while she was still in her mommy's tummy
it was a cromosom abnormality or something like that...
the doctor said that it was impossible for the baby to be born without any extraordinary interference
so the baby need blood transfusion while still inside of Tari
her blood type was O Rh-, an O Rh- donor isn't really easy to find
Alhamdulillah Teje managed to find a donor in facebook, theres a FBgroup made by groups of O Rh- people
but that wasn't the end
it turns out that the baby got some kidney problem
she took fluids from her mommy but she didn't leak any urine out
so another surgery needs to be applied to take out the urine
the side effect is it that a contraction might happened
and it did
The nurse tried so the baby can be born normally, tapi posisinya sungsang
finally a caesar surgery had to be done
the baby...
Teje look at the baby from behind a window being held by a nurse, she wasn't crying
she didn't make it...
the doctor said to Teje that there was no pulse and that she was probably died while she was still inside
her weight was 2kg and her length was about 40cm
beratnya 2kilo trus panjangnya 40cm
*while He was glancing at Tari and She was glancing at Him
Teje told all of this to me while i was visiting them as the hospital yesterday
Though he can still make jokes and laugh at that time, but i can definitely see His sadness
apalagi Tari, she looks... empty
i feel so sad for both of them, they have waited for more than 35weeks
anyway a couple of other friend also visited
one that i will mention here is Mas Zubed, nasehat yg dia berikan utk Teje adalah
Sabar, kalau sudah rejekimu engga akan kemana. nanti akan ada penggantinya. yg tabah ya Je
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